BOBBEE BEE THE HATER: JUSTIFY YOUR LOVE

JUSTIFY YOUR LOVE by e.graham

According to (1 Cor 13:4 ), " Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.

Despite this scripture, the R&B legend Tina Turner, who survived an abusive relationship with her husband Ike Turner, famously sang the lyrics in 1984 on the record "What's Love Got to Do with It" from her fifth solo album, Private Dancer "Oh-oh, what's love got to do, got to do with it? What's love but a second-hand emotion?

With that said, we, all have a girlfriend, who always needs a man, who goes from one bad relationship to the next. But, never, taking the time to "LEARN THEMSELVES," (Prov:19:8) in order to obtain a new skill, by going back to school, earning a degree, starting a new job before getting into a new relationship, bragging about their new BOO, where they, unfortunately, totally immerse themselves, losing their identity in that person, without investigation, after ONLY a couple of week, JUSTIFYING THEIR LOVE-even when the relationship was built on toxicity.

On the flip side, we all know that girlfriend, who JUSTIFIES HER LOVE, in desperate need of attention, by manipulating men to "secure the bag" in order to obtain financial freedom, celebrity status, material gains, such as name-brand bags, foreign trips, exotic cars, and expensive jewels in exchange for sexual favors, wherein the worst-case scenario, they entrap them by becoming pregnant, which, sadly, can lead to a cycle of co-dependency.

Especially, if the young man is economically wealthy, an athlete, performer, or involved in criminal activity, where his money comes from illegal street activity.

This justification for Love, or need for companionship, or desire to be married, Atlanta Housewives style, in fear of being alone leads some women  to develop forms of depression because they're not really "happy."

So, they secretly, remain silent, accepting the disrespect from their mate fearing they will be having an affair. So, they begin to tolerate all the "baby mama drama, "criminality, serial cheating, plus physical, emotional, and psychological abuse in order to stay in the relationship.

Despite all the warning signs, they deny it exists, loathing that exposing it will dismantle their perceived "PERFECT UNION," which was based on deception from the beginning. Therefore, they help to cover up their lover's infidelities from the general public, even though, it is obvious to family members, co-workers, and friends.

But, in order to Keep Up With The Kardashians, they continue the masquerade, JUSTIFYING THEIR LOVE, with vacation pics, FaceBook likes, Instagram posts of family outings, sexy selfies, using it as a defense mechanism, even if the love has become abusive. Unfortunately, at this time, they have formed a bond with the abuser.

In situations as this, one may make statements like: "I know, I don't have what I want, but I will deal with what I have."

But, why would a woman stay with this type of toxic-sexual relationship, you ask?

Sometimes, it is due to the need for intimacy and sexual stimulation or sexual gratification.

Which, most priests use Cor (7:8-11) as the premise, which states if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she departs, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. (Triplefold meaning)

Some wicked unlearned preachers and pimps of the scripture use these verses to JUSTIFY sharing their mates and engaging in threesomes, which could lead to unwanted sexual diseases, abortions, and broken hearts and homes.

Currently, this is the way of the streets, where young women are engaging in so-called polyamorous relationships, knowingly or not knowingly, with no level of commitment, in the spirit of Madonna's 1990's song Justify My Love, who is dating a 27-year old Black male, which contains the lyrics:

"Wanting, needing, waiting. For you to justify my love. I'm open and ready. For you to justify my love.

In other cases, a person may stay in such toxic relationships, while overlooking the abuse for the sake of the children. For, the person, due to his level of finance, may control all the assets, paying all the bills. So, even though, he may be a good provider, he is also a toxic TYRANNY and a TERRORIST through his thoughts and actions, wherein the worst-case scenario, believes he owns the individual.

Meaning, she is not allowed any independent thought, and neither is allowed any personal freedom without his permission. (Eph: 5:25-33)

Yet, instill, the person JUSTIFIES their love, even with this type of abusiveness, because they may have become codependent in this dysfunctional relationship, where one person is a caretaker, and the other person takes advantage.

In most cases, 1.) it is due to low self-esteem, 2.) lack of education, 3.) fear of abandonment, 4.) a product of a dysfunctional home where emotional needs for love and intimacy were not met from an unavailable mother or father, 5.)criminal record, 6.) substance abuse, 7.) fear of homelessness, 8.) lack of employment, or 9.) desire to save a person from themselves.

This belief system can also create a level of paranoia, personality borderline disorder, where their fight or flight response becomes almost non-existence due to their traumatic bonding that produces a form of Cognitive dissonance, which occurs when a person holds contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values, and is typically experienced as psychological stress when they participate in an action that goes against one or more of them.

So, how are you going to JUSTIFY YOUR LOVE because wisdom is justified of all her children  (Luke 7:35)

So, ...put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts,  and be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness. (Eph 4:22-24) (bobbeethehater.blogspot.com)

 

BOBBEE BEE THE HATER: TRIPLE STAGES OF THE HEART: DAUGHTERS, LOVERS & MOTHERS

“I AM THE “ROSE” OF SHARON” Solomon 2:1

WIS-DOM WEDNESDAY: TRIPLE STAGES OF THE HEART: DAUGHTERS, LOVERS, AND MOTHERS by e.graham

In 2003, blues rock singer-songwriter John Mayer released his third single entitled “Daughters” from his album entitled Heavier Things, which contained the lyrics: “Father’s be good to your daughters. Because daughters become Lovers.  And Lovers become Mothers. So, mothers be good to your daughters, too…

With the lyrics of this beautiful song, which won the 2005 Grammy Award for Song of the Year at the 47th Grammy Awards playing in the background as you read this article, heed to the Words from the Book of Leviticus, which states: Do not prostitute your daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness….

With that said, for the learned men and women, let’s remember the Five Daughters of Zelophehad, a man, (meaning dark shadows) who had no sons (SUNS)  from the tribe Manasseh, who died along with his entire generation while wandering in the wilderness/ “ the desert,” trying to make it to the Promise Land.

And, because, Zelophehad had no male heirs his 5 daughters Mahlah means "forgiven", Noa means "movement", Milcah means "queen", Tirzah means "pleasing", Hoglah means "circling/dancing" stood up to Moses and requested that they inherit their father’s property.

 In doing this, they were cutting across the social norms of the day. Because, in ancient Israel, women did not inherit land.

Yet because their case made sense. Moses allowed the five daughters of Zelophehad, which means “village” to require the property after consulting with THE LORD, with one stipulation that they were to MARRY (Mary) within their father’s tribe. Thus, preserving the unity of the 12 tribes of Isis-Ra-El. (Number 36:2-11).

So, fathers, be good to your daughters. Because, Daughters will love like you do. And, girls become lovers….

This takes us directly to the Songs of SOL-OM-ON, which is a “moving” love story between a young country girl from Southern Arabia,  named Queen SHEBA, which in Hebrew means “PROMISE,” whose nickname is Bathsheba, who is noted for her wealth that journeyed to Jerusalem or Herusalem to SEE HERSELF WHETHER “accounts” about KING SOLOMON’s (PEACE) great wisdom and wealth were true.

The Songs of Solomon, in fact, is filled with delicate poetry, where these two lovers (Solomon and Shulammite woman, meaning woman of Jerusalem) express their intense PASSION and DEEP longing for each other. She is his CHOSEN BRIDE, the Daughter of Jerusalem.

Hence (Song of Solomon 1:2-4) states:

"Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine. Because of the savour of thy good ointments, thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee. Draw me, we will run after thee: the king hath brought me into his chambers: we will be glad and rejoice in thee, we will remember thy love more than wine: the upright love thee. I AM BLACK, BUT COMELY, O ye DAUGHTERS OF JERUSALEM, as the tents of Kedar, (dark-skinned,Shiva) as the curtains of Solomon. Look not upon me, because I am BLACK, because the SUN hath looked upon me:  If thou know not, O thou fairest among women...O my love...your cheeks are comely with rows of jewels, thy neck with chains of gold. Song of Solomon (1:5), (1:10)

So“FATHERS, BE GOOD TO YOUR DAUGHTERS. DAUGHTERS WILL LOVE LIKE YOU DO. BECAUSE, GIRLS BECOME LOVERS, WHO TURN INTO MOTHERS.

With that last stanza, when Christ was speaking this woman called out from the crowd; She praised Him by PRAISING HIS MOTHER, saying, “Blessed is the womb, that carried You and the breasts at which You Nursed (Luke 11:27)

Jesus, however, used her praise of His speaking to redirect the attention of all His hearers to the essential, saying that those who practice the WORD OF God they had heard were the ones who were really blessed (Luke 11:27-28)

SO, FATHERS, BE GOOD TO YOUR DAUGHTERS. DAUGHTERS WILL LOVE LIKE YOU DO. GIRLS BECOME LOVERS WHO TURN INTO MOTHERS. SO MOTHERS BE GOOD TO YOUR DAUGHTERS, TOO….”

Because, if we can remember, in the biblical drama, of Christ’s Resurrection, according to Luke (24:8), who was there….

 “It was Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary, the Mother of James, and the other women with them, who told these things to the apostles. And their words seemed to them idle tales, and they did not believe them.

But, as the Song of Solomon states: I AM THE “ROSE” OF SHARON, and the lily of the valleys, as the lily among thorns, SO IS MY LOVE AMONG THE DAUGHTERS.

According to this interpretation, THE ROSE of Sharon, meaning "fertile plain or PRINCESS" has an even more special meaning.

Since this flower only blooms on the highest point of the mountain, the picture of CHRIST can be found in it.  For, he, within the Christ mythos, is our flower of salvation that blooms from the top of Mount Calvary, which is symbolized by a SKULL, representing the GRAVE, which signifies that Christ "ROSE" from the dead.

“So, Fathers, be good to your daughters. Daughters will love like you do. Girls become lovers who turn into Mothers. So mothers be good to your daughters, too…” (bobbeethehater.blogspot.com)

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BOBBEE BEE THE HATER: THE DAY OF PENTECOST

SUN-DAY SCHOOL CLASS: THE DAY OF PENTECOST by e.graham

On this Sunday, in the Judeo-Christian faith, its believers celebrate the Feast of Weeks, also known as the Feast of Harvest or Pentecost, which is a Greek word meaning fifty.

And, even though Christians call this day the 'Pentecost’, those practicing Judaism call it Shavuot, which allegedly is the day God gave the Torah known as the Pentateuch to Moses on Mount Sinai, which is the compilation of the first five books of the Hebrew Bible, namely the books of Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy.

The Biblical reference for the Day of Pentecost, observed in the third month, on the 50th day after the offering of the barley sheaf at the Feast of Unleaved Bread occurs in (Ex 23:16; 34-22;) which included a holy convocation with the usual restriction on manual labor, which was attended by servants, sons and daughters, Levi priests, the fatherless, widows along with strangers, who gathered in Jersusalem 50 days after Christ's Resurrection or Easter Sunday, where they allegedly experienced the outpouring of the Most High's Holy Spirit in a miraculous way (Acts 2:1-4)

The question is "Can you find that Bread?"

Despite the literal interpretation of these scriptures and religious observation of this "Holy" Holiday, it has a deeper exoteric meaning to the learnt man and woman, who may be students of the Pythagorean formula of the 3, 4, 5. For, the Day of Pentecost, has mathematical and metaphysical significance.

But, before, we continue, understand the name Pythagoras by using etymology, is broken down to Pytha and Agoras, Agor means “he who spoke or speaks," which means Pythagoras may be interpreted as ‘He who spoke or speaks on behalf of the god Ptah, the "real father of mathematics, written in Medu Neter Hieroglyphs, has the square [Pi] in the half-circle (T) and the three looped knotted rope [Har] as the three symbols in his name; seen in the Greek as PØ Phi-tha.

For, the original Black man, builder, and designer of the pyramids, is the first Mason, who numerically, is represented by the number (3.) which represents the trinity, (Osiris, Isis, and Set) royalty, a luscious garden, magic healing, and the completion of Menkaure ), Khafre and Khufu (the Great Pyramid) of Egypt.

Hence, there are 3 righteous patriarchs. within the Hebrew myth before the flood Abel, Enoch, and Noah, and three righteous symbolic "fathers" after the deluge, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob (later renamed Israel, which has astrological importance.

The number (4,) on the other hand, stands for the CROSS and the SQUARE, Law and the order, the foundation, and THE CORNERSTONE. While. the number 5 is associated with the mighty fortress of God, the spiritual truth. Hence, the ten commandments, are on two stone tablets.

Keep this in mind, in studying the mythology of Christ, who was crucified and resurrected from the dead after (3) days, which was prophesied allegorically in the parable about Jonah being in the belly of the fish for three days in (Matt:12:39-41)

But He answered and said to them, “An evil and adulterous generation seeks after a sign, and no sign will be given to it except the sign of the prophet Jonah, meaning DOVE, which is symbolized the HOLY SPIRIT. For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.

Even with this parable, however, many self-proclaimed Christians fell to realize in the legend of Christ, that after being resurrected, He came back in a physical body, flesh, and bones, not as a spirit or ghost as many of his disciples believed him to be and appeared at least 10 times over 40 days (Acts 1:3) after He arose from the dead. (Coded language Here)

This is explained in the Gospel of Luke Chapter 24.

For, "He sat at the table with them, that He took bread, blessed and broke it, and gave it to them."

This, of course, is an astrological allegory as well, which has a cosmological interpretation and forms a "sacred" geometrical structure. For, Christ, to prove, He wasn't a spirit, while standing in the MIDST of his disciples, because they were terrified and frightened" said to them, Peace to you (in Arabic As-salamu alaykum ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ, or in Hebrew *SHALOM ALEICHEM) "Why are you troubled? And why do doubts arise in your hearts? Behold My hands and My feet, that it is Myself. Handle Me and see, for a spirit does not have flesh and bones as you see I have.

This is figurative and symbolic language. Because the number 40, with the scriptural text, generally symbolizes a period of testing, trial, or probation. Hence, during Moses' life, he lived forty years in Egypt and forty years in the desert before God selected him to lead his people out of slavery.

Plus, the prophet Jonah powerfully warned ancient Nineveh, for forty days, that its destruction would come because of its many sins. Unfortunately, many people read the Bible as literary history, becoming trapped within it, and often "overlook" the hidden meaning.

Let's not forget, according to John, "There are also many other things that Jesus did, which if they were written (one by one)

I suppose that EVEN the world itself could not contain the books that would be written." (John 21:25)

With that said, "I'm just cracking the surface," however, this takes us back to the 3-4-5 of the Pythagorean Theorem, known as the 47th problem of Euclid, which states that the area of the square whose side is the hypotenuse is equal to the sum of the areas of the squares on the other two sides.

For Christ, the chief cornerstone was resurrected after 3 days, remaining on earth for (40) days before ascending to HEAVEN as the people of Galilee, meaning circle, WATCHED before celebrating the Day of Pentecost on the 50th day, symbolized by the dove (360 degrees,) which in the Hebrew myth, Noah sent from the Ark to see if there is any dry land left after the Great Flood, where the bird returns holding an olive branch in its beak,  meaning PEACE, for it occurred at a place (geographically) where there is no East or West in Heaven).

Hence, there was "a sound from heaven (came) as of a rushing mighty wind, filling the whole house, where they were sitting. (Act 2:2)

For, in Christian symbolism, a caged dove signifies the human soul still imprisoned in the flesh during our mortal life. And, even, King David honors the bird in the midst of his suffering and troubles of old age as he cries out: Oh that I had wings like a dove! For then would I fly away, and be at rest.(Psalm 55:6).

SHOW THYSELF APPROVED. (bobbeethehater.blogspot.com)